It’s been on my heart for a while. Do I give blogging a break? Do I stop all together? Do I revamp? Is this a blogging farewell? I’ll tell you my final decision toward the end of this post. I’ve been struggling with what to do with my little place in the blogosphere for a while now. First, I want to share a little history about my blog. I wanted to create a place to share my stories in a way that would uplift, unify, and inspire other women. I started on a platform called Webs.com, which never came to fruition. When I moved to Atlanta, I joined WordPress, and wrote my first post in August 2011. I couldn’t have been prouder of myself for taking that huge step! I apologize in advance for this super long post. I promise you'll be glad you stuck around to read.
History of my blog:
My first year in blogging was fun, frustrating, and I spent more time playing graphic designer than publishing blog post, lol! I was not hip to having someone actually design my website. Oh, the joys of trying to create blog headers that never quite fit the length criteria of the various themes I chose (I don’t miss those days). I learned so much that year! Mostly, that I would much rather pay someone to design my blog for me, so I could focus on writing.
My second year was my best year in blogging began with a total blog makeover, with the design you all currently see. I was ecstatic to have an awesome design that reflected who I was at that time. I was all about my natural hair journey. This was the year I was introduced to blog social groups like the SITS Girls and Bloggers Like Me. I met the MOST amazing group of women through these groups. I had 10-20 women that I regularly visited their blogs and socialized via social media. It was a great time! I participated in Twitter chats, blog hops, and other blog related events like Blogalicious and the ATL BLM meetup. But, somewhere between all of that fun, I began to lose who I was as a blogger, writer, and person.
Year 3 to current has been the most peculiar time for me in blogging. I was too busy trying to “keep up” with what everyone was doing with their blogs. Trying to monetize and strategize my posts. Trying to keep up with keywords, and trends became overwhelming. None of which is the reason I started blogging! I couldn’t write a post without wondering what keywords I should be using, and if my post was creative enough, or if I commented on enough blogs that day. I started to be unhappy with my blog and blogging altogether. The social media aspect became a nightmare for me. My blogging became extremely sporadic and I no longer enjoyed it. More importantly, I haven't been able to spend time writing or doing the things I've really wanted to do, because blogging is very time consuming. On top of that, my personal life in regards to my job/career has been frustrating. I need to take the time to get to know me again, in "real-time". I need spiritual cleansing and time to just be. So, with all of this, I knew I had to make a decision with my blog.
Time for a change: Blog Decision
I have ultimately decided what to with my blog….drumroll! I’m going to take a break for the next few months to rejuvenate, and enjoy my life outside of blogging. So, it's farewell for now. I do hope to either revamp this space or create something entirely new at some point! When/if I do decide to return to blogging, It will be more of a website, where I can share more with you outside of a blog post. I'm also working on some new projects with my husband, which I’m really excited about! We had a professional photo shoot done to jump-start our new projects. He is an online radio host, and his website will be launching in August 2015, so be on the lookout for that!
Here's a sneak peek of what's to come! ;)
I appreciate all of you who have shared this journey with me, who’ve shared my blog posts, who befriended me along the way, and were so supportive of Caramel Conversations. I want to give a special shout out to my fabulous blog boos Nellie of Brooklyn Active Mama, Joi of Rx Fitness Lady, Tamara of Tamera like Camera, and the many of you, which I would name, if space/time allowed. I want to thank you and know that I love you all!
Please follow my social media channels, as I will continue to share the going-ons of my new website plans and our other projects, as well as our personal experiences in life.